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		<title>By: SlushPile.net &#187; Good Hard Rock Books</title>
		<link>http://www.slushpile.net/index.php/2007/08/13/rock-star-101/comment-page-1/#comment-602815</link>
		<dc:creator>SlushPile.net &#187; Good Hard Rock Books</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Jun 2011 14:41:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Star 101: A Rock Star&#8217;s Guide to Survival in the Music Business by Marc Ferrari I have praised Rock Star 101 before. In this book, Ferrari a guitar player and businessman shares all the mechanics about the [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Star 101: A Rock Star&#8217;s Guide to Survival in the Music Business by Marc Ferrari I have praised Rock Star 101 before. In this book, Ferrari a guitar player and businessman shares all the mechanics about the [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Marc Ferrari</title>
		<link>http://www.slushpile.net/index.php/2007/08/13/rock-star-101/comment-page-1/#comment-241773</link>
		<dc:creator>Marc Ferrari</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Sep 2007 20:25:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just wanted to say &quot;thank you&quot; for the kind words posted about my book. It was a labor of love both in the writing process (1 year) and the pitching process (nearly 2 years). Would love to stay in touch with anyone who wishes to do so.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just wanted to say &#8220;thank you&#8221; for the kind words posted about my book. It was a labor of love both in the writing process (1 year) and the pitching process (nearly 2 years). Would love to stay in touch with anyone who wishes to do so.</p>
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		<title>By: Mark</title>
		<link>http://www.slushpile.net/index.php/2007/08/13/rock-star-101/comment-page-1/#comment-234342</link>
		<dc:creator>Mark</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Aug 2007 07:42:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, I know what you mean - sorry if I sounded like I was implying you were looking down on anyone...  My feeling is that while it&#039;s true that you&#039;ve got to give some things your all, too many people just repeat mantras about persistence and &#039;keep trying!&#039; etc., when the person who isn&#039;t trying so hard may actually have reached a valid conclusion about their own future effort/reward... The &#039;keep trying!&#039; response seems too easy, like the &#039;lose weight!&#039; solution for people who want to feel more attractive... I tend to be of the opinion that if a &#039;writer&#039; or a writer can live a happy life without dedicating themselves to writing, they probably should - the people who need to do it will be compelled regardless... I&#039;m in the middle of a window of opportunity in which I can write full-time, and so I&#039;m doing that. It involves some risks of obvious types, but I can&#039;t imagine doing anything else without regret - and I&#039;ve had enough positive interaction with agents and editors to think that I&#039;m not entirely deluded... Partial delusion can be useful.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, I know what you mean &#8211; sorry if I sounded like I was implying you were looking down on anyone&#8230;  My feeling is that while it&#8217;s true that you&#8217;ve got to give some things your all, too many people just repeat mantras about persistence and &#8216;keep trying!&#8217; etc., when the person who isn&#8217;t trying so hard may actually have reached a valid conclusion about their own future effort/reward&#8230; The &#8216;keep trying!&#8217; response seems too easy, like the &#8216;lose weight!&#8217; solution for people who want to feel more attractive&#8230; I tend to be of the opinion that if a &#8216;writer&#8217; or a writer can live a happy life without dedicating themselves to writing, they probably should &#8211; the people who need to do it will be compelled regardless&#8230; I&#8217;m in the middle of a window of opportunity in which I can write full-time, and so I&#8217;m doing that. It involves some risks of obvious types, but I can&#8217;t imagine doing anything else without regret &#8211; and I&#8217;ve had enough positive interaction with agents and editors to think that I&#8217;m not entirely deluded&#8230; Partial delusion can be useful.</p>
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		<title>By: Scott at Slushpile.net</title>
		<link>http://www.slushpile.net/index.php/2007/08/13/rock-star-101/comment-page-1/#comment-234124</link>
		<dc:creator>Scott at Slushpile.net</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Aug 2007 15:09:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That&#039;s a great point. Just like you, I do &lt;em&gt;not&lt;/em&gt; mean to sound like I look down my nose at people with jobs or other responsibilities. Hell, I&#039;ve got a day-job.

It&#039;s just that I think we all as writers have to make a choice and then accept the consequences. I&#039;ve kept a day-job, so I have to be prepared to deal with the limitations on my writing time. I also have to be prepared to deal with the possible limitations of my career.

Some folks can achieve wild success while maintaining other professional pursuits. John Grisham wrote &lt;u&gt;The Firm&lt;/u&gt; at four in the morning before going into the law office. It can happen.

But often what you encounter are people who say they want to write so desperately but there&#039;s this, and there&#039;s that, and there&#039;s this other reason why they can&#039;t. And it boils down to what John Dufresne writes in &lt;u&gt;The Lie That Tells the Truth&lt;/u&gt;. If all these obstacles can&#039;t be overcome, then maybe you shouldn&#039;t be trying to write.

So in the end, my point was to admire Ferrari&#039;s dedication and committment in going all-in, moving across the country, and not worrying about risk or backup plans or anything like that.

It&#039;s not the right choice for everyone, but it&#039;s an admirable endeavor for those people who do totally immerse themselves in pursuit of their goals.

And, as you point out, the unfortunate reality is that applying total dedication is no guarantee of success either. That&#039;s the damnable quandry of the whole thing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That&#8217;s a great point. Just like you, I do <em>not</em> mean to sound like I look down my nose at people with jobs or other responsibilities. Hell, I&#8217;ve got a day-job.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s just that I think we all as writers have to make a choice and then accept the consequences. I&#8217;ve kept a day-job, so I have to be prepared to deal with the limitations on my writing time. I also have to be prepared to deal with the possible limitations of my career.</p>
<p>Some folks can achieve wild success while maintaining other professional pursuits. John Grisham wrote <u>The Firm</u> at four in the morning before going into the law office. It can happen.</p>
<p>But often what you encounter are people who say they want to write so desperately but there&#8217;s this, and there&#8217;s that, and there&#8217;s this other reason why they can&#8217;t. And it boils down to what John Dufresne writes in <u>The Lie That Tells the Truth</u>. If all these obstacles can&#8217;t be overcome, then maybe you shouldn&#8217;t be trying to write.</p>
<p>So in the end, my point was to admire Ferrari&#8217;s dedication and committment in going all-in, moving across the country, and not worrying about risk or backup plans or anything like that.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s not the right choice for everyone, but it&#8217;s an admirable endeavor for those people who do totally immerse themselves in pursuit of their goals.</p>
<p>And, as you point out, the unfortunate reality is that applying total dedication is no guarantee of success either. That&#8217;s the damnable quandry of the whole thing.</p>
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		<title>By: Mark</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mark</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Aug 2007 13:36:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A very interesting post. It&#039;s also worth remembering why people come up with excuses. As in quantitative logic, where &#039;if A, then B&#039; being true does not entail &#039;if B, then A&#039; (the reverse) being true - the fact that &#039;if you are a successful writer, then you will have applied total dedication&#039; does not mean that &#039;if you apply total dedication, you will become a successful writer&#039;..... there are many musicians who tried as hard as Marc Ferrari but will never have a book published explaining that it led nowhere...  For me, total dedication to writing is a risk I&#039;ve been prepared to take, and so far it&#039;s paid off - but it is a risk, and I don&#039;t look down on the busy-with-work people or the looking-after-kids people for not having the emotional or financial resources available to take that risk and probably come away with nothing...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A very interesting post. It&#8217;s also worth remembering why people come up with excuses. As in quantitative logic, where &#8216;if A, then B&#8217; being true does not entail &#8216;if B, then A&#8217; (the reverse) being true &#8211; the fact that &#8216;if you are a successful writer, then you will have applied total dedication&#8217; does not mean that &#8216;if you apply total dedication, you will become a successful writer&#8217;&#8230;.. there are many musicians who tried as hard as Marc Ferrari but will never have a book published explaining that it led nowhere&#8230;  For me, total dedication to writing is a risk I&#8217;ve been prepared to take, and so far it&#8217;s paid off &#8211; but it is a risk, and I don&#8217;t look down on the busy-with-work people or the looking-after-kids people for not having the emotional or financial resources available to take that risk and probably come away with nothing&#8230;</p>
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